Zack and Becky | Adopt International

Zack and Becky Milan

Hi, and thank you for taking the time to get to know us! We’re Zack and Becky—best friends for over two decades, married for sixteen years, and proud adoptive parents to our amazing son, Josiah. We live in Santa Clara, California, in a cozy, book-filled home with two sweet cats and a warm, welcoming community.

Our journey to parenthood began with our shared dream of building a loving family. Before adopting Josiah, we were foster parents to two wonderful little boys—experiences that shaped us deeply. Josiah joined our family through open adoption in 2020, and we cherish the bond we have with his birth parents. Now, we’re excited to grow our family again through adoption and give Josiah the joy of being a big brother.

About Us
Zack works from home in tech and is a devoted, playful dad who loves family bike rides, Legos, and fixing things. Becky, a former teacher, now works in a school office and has extra time in the summers to spend with family. She brings creativity, compassion, and resilience—especially shaped by her own childhood cancer journey and years of advocacy for children with serious illness.

Josiah is full of curiosity, energy, and affection. He loves trains, sports, and anything silly. He’s already making gifts “for the baby” and can’t wait to become a big brother!

Our Life Together
We love spending time as a family—bike rides, Disneyland trips, family game nights, and cheering on the Warriors and 49ers! We volunteer at our church and with a soccer program for kids with special needs. Our neighborhood is full of parks and playgrounds, and our extended family is ready to welcome another child with open arms and hearts.

Our Promise
We admire your strength and the love you’re showing by considering open adoption. If chosen, we promise to provide your child with a home full of laughter, learning, and unconditional love. We will honor your story and keep you connected in ways that feel right to you—through updates, visits, and shared milestones.

We’d love to connect with you and hear about your hopes for your child.

With love,

Zack, Becky & Josiah