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Giving your baby up for adoption

Information for expectant mothers

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If you’re considering giving your baby up for adoption, it’s understandable to have many questions about the whole process. 

 

One of the first and most important things to remember is that placing a child for adoption is not equivalent to ‘giving up’ on a child, or yourself.

 

Instead, you are choosing to take proactive steps to create a family environment for your child, where you may be unable – for whatever reason – to meet their needs. 

 

It can be overwhelming to consider placing a baby for adoption, so here are some of the most fundamental things you need to consider if this is something you are thinking about.

 

  1. What happens when you place a baby for adoption?

  2. Will I get to choose the adoptive family for my baby?

  3. Support with giving your baby up for adoption

 

1) What happens when you place a baby for adoption?

 

The adoption process is very much led by the feelings and wishes of the expectant mother. 

 

At all times, you should feel supported and listened to. 

 

It is absolutely OK to ask as many questions as you need to feel reassured, and you are entitled to change your mind about any or all aspects of the adoption process at any point. Nobody should ever pressure you to make a decision one way or the other. 

 

If, however, you do decide to place your baby for adoption, after the baby is born, you will be given some time to confirm whether or not this is the right decision for you, before legal papers are signed. 

 

Once the legal papers are signed, and the terms of the adoption are agreed, the baby is transferred to the adoptive family, an adoption is considered complete.

2) Will I get to choose the adoptive family for my baby?

 

 

Whether you get to choose the adoptive family for your baby is entirely down to personal preference. 

 

We often find that open adoptions can be hugely beneficial to all parties involved, and a reputable adoption agency is invaluable in helping to negotiate the logistics of this arrangement.

 

If you are an expectant mother considering an open adoption, you will be guided in choosing the right adoptive family for your child. 

 

This will include agreeing terms for ongoing contact with the child after adoption takes place. 

 

Contact can be in the form of letters, photographs, video calls, or regular face-to-face meetings.

 

3) Support with giving your baby up for adoption

 

 

When considering placing your baby for adoption, it is vital that you feel in control of the process at all times. 

 

As an expectant mother, you deserve to have a respectful and positive experience, and should never be pressured into making decisions that you feel uncomfortable about.

Even if you are not fully decided on the best course of action for you and your baby, talking with an adoption agency can be hugely beneficial. 

 

A reputable adoption agency can help you decide if adoption is right for you and talk through all the available options. Very often, members of adoption agencies have first-hand experience of adoption themselves, so can provide valuable insights.

 

Professional staff will also liaise with prospective adoptive families, advise you of your rights, and support you before and after your baby's birth. 

 

They will also advocate your right to change your mind at any point, completely supporting any decision you choose to make.

If you found this article useful, you might also find this useful: Place baby for adoption

 

  • If you are pregnant and wondering whether adoption could be the right option for you and your baby, you can contact us any time on (800)-969-6665 or by filling out this form.

 

  • Adopt International is a non-profit organization. We provide extensive support and assistance to expectant mothers who are considering adoption for their child. Learn more here.

 

  • If you are a family who is considering adopting a child, learn more here.

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If you are pregnant and considering placing your baby for adoption, you deserve to have a respectful and positive experience.

 

We can help every step of the way.

Our adoption counselors can:

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Help decide if adoption is right for you

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Advise you of your rights, and connect you to resources

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Help you choose an adoptive family

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Assist you with obtaining adoption expenses

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Help you learn more about open adoption

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Support you before and after the birth of your baby

You are in control, and can choose what your adoption plan will be.

About us

At Adopt International, we believe it is important that you make this decision on your own terms and surround yourself with helpful, supportive professionals.

We have over 40 years of experience working with pregnant women, which has taught us that in order to have a successful adoption it is imperative that a birth mother is comfortable and confident in the choice she makes.

We are advocates for open adoption. Research shows it is the best kind of adoption plan for birth families, adoptive families, and adoptees.

Words from birth mothers

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“I want to thank Adopt International for all they have done for me and my daughter and her family.

 

They truly know the meaning of open adoption and making it work for us all.”

- Monica

“From the second I walked in the door I felt like I was in a very warm and supportive environment.”

- Bethany

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“You didn’t pressure me into anything.

You held my hand all the way through the process and made sure I knew everything about placing my child for adoption.

I am forever grateful for your agency.”

- Birth mother

“Well, I chose Adopt International because the awesome family I chose to be my birth daughter’s adoptive parents were already working with y’all, and when I met with y’all myself, you were so pro birth parent, understanding, and down to Earth in a situation that was straight up madness.

I have love, love, loved being in contact with y’all over time and seeing that you really do care, just like you showed me over a decade ago!”

- Myra

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¿Considerando dar en adopción? 

Si estás embarazada y consideras dar en adopción a tu bebé, mereces tener una experiencia respetuosa y positiva. Te empoderaremos para que puedes tomar la mejor decisión para usted. Tenemos trabajadoras sociales que hablan español para ayudarte y responder a tus preguntas.

 

Nuestras consejeras de adopción pueden:

  • Ayudarle a decidir si adopción es la mejor opción para ti

  • Apoyar en su decisión de criar a tu niño o por familia adoptiva.  

  • Ayudar a aprender sobre la adopción abierta. 

  • Ayudarle a elegir una familia adoptiva

  • Informarle sobre sus derechos y a poner en contacto con los servicios que se requieran. 

  • Asistirle para conseguir ayuda en los gastos de adopción. 

  • Apoyarle antes y después del nacimiento de su bebé. 

 

Usted tiene el control, y puede elegir el mejor plan de adopción que mejor le convenga

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