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What is a closed adoption?

  • frank50788
  • Mar 23
  • 3 min read
A baby’s feet framed by hands held in a heart shape

In a closed adoption, identifying information is not shared between the birth family and the adoptive family, and there is no ongoing contact after the adoption is finalized. Many modern adoptions today are more open, allowing communication and connection between families. However, for some birthmothers, the level of privacy in a closed adoption may feel like the right choice during this time.


Understanding the difference between closed and open adoption can help women considering adoption decide what feels most comfortable and supportive for them.


1) What is a closed adoption and how does it work?

A closed adoption is usually handled through an adoption agency or professional who will find adoptive parents, ensure the birthmother’s wishes are respected, and protect the privacy of everyone involved. Communication occurs only through the agency, and in many cases, there is no ongoing exchange of updates after adoption.


Although a closed adoption prevents the sharing of identifying details, some non-identifying information may still be shared. For example, birth families may learn general details about the adoptive family’s lifestyle, values, or interests, while adoptive families may receive medical or background information that can be important for the child’s future well-being.


While this was once the most common type of adoption, today many women prefer adoption options that allow some level of openness. Every adoption journey is unique, and the most important thing is that the plan reflects what the birthmother truly needs and wants.


2) What is an open adoption and how is it different?

In an open adoption, the birth family and adoptive family share information and maintain some level of communication during and after the adoption process. The birthmother typically has the opportunity to choose the adoptive family and, if she wishes, meet them before the baby is born. 


Communication after an open adoption may include sharing letters, photos, phone calls, or occasional visits, depending on what everyone agrees feels comfortable. Every open adoption looks a little different, and the level of contact can be tailored and adapted to the wishes of the birthmother and the adoptive family.


At Adopt International, we often see how meaningful this connection can be. Open adoption facilitates healthy emotional outcomes for children and can create respectful, positive relationships between birth families and adoptive families. Birthmothers find reassurance in getting to know the adoptive parents and seeing the love and stability they hope their child will experience. 


3) How birthmothers can find adoptive parents who respect their wishes

Choosing the right adoptive family means finding parents whose values, lifestyle, and hopes for the future align with what matters most to the birthmother. Many women find comfort in reading family profiles, learning about their personalities, and picturing the kind of future their child might have.


Our role is to guide birthmothers through this process with care and patience, making sure they feel confident in the family they choose. We focus on providing information, support, and the opportunity to learn about families who are ready to welcome a child with love and respect. By working with an adoption agency that listens carefully to their hopes, vision, and boundaries, birthmothers can find adoptive parents who feel right for her and for her child.


At Adopt International, we walk alongside expectant mothers and birthmothers every step of the way. Whether you are just beginning to explore adoption options or are ready to meet potential adoptive families, our team is here to listen, answer questions, and provide support without pressure or judgment.

Adopt International is a non-profit organization dedicated to supporting expectant mothers throughout every step of the adoption journey. We provide compassionate guidance, reliable resources, and personalized support so every decision is informed and made with care.



 
 
 

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