If you are considering placing your child for adoption, seeking expert support and advice to help you through the process is crucial. You will likely have many questions, and it is not uncommon to feel overwhelmed about the adoption process.
The good news is there are lots of resources both online and from different organizations, which can provide you with the information you need in order to make an informed decision that is right for both you and your child.
Here’s what we’ll cover:
1) Giving your child up for adoption: The first steps
When considering placing your child for adoption, it is helpful to learn more about the adoption process. At Adopt International, we start by discussing how adoption works and what to expect. This enables you to make an informed choice about your child's future, as well as allowing you to consider other options such as parenting, abortion, and kinship adoption.
If you decide that adoption is the route you'd like to take, we will help guide you through the process and empower you to make the next set of decisions such as what type of adoptive family do you want for your child and do you want an open vs closed adoption. Although open adoptions are now the most common choice, there may be certain circumstances where closed adoptions are the preferred option.
An open adoption consists of a pre-arranged contact both before and after the adoption takes place. We are strong advocates for open adoptions, as we feel that they are often the best option for all parties involved: not only the child, but also the birth parents and adoptive family.
2) Making an adoption plan
When placing a child for adoption, you will work with an experienced professional to create an adoption plan. This may be with an adoption agency, like Adopt International, an adoption-competent therapist, or an adoption attorney.
An adoption plan starts by outlining your hopes and wishes for you and your child. This helps to build a picture of the ideal adoptive family for your child, and also how you see your role in your child's future. The adoption plan will also include details such as the level of level of contact that you would like to maintain with the child.
3) How to find adoptive parents for your child
Looking for adoptive parents for a child can be overwhelming, especially if you find yourself spending hours trawling through online advertisements (and there are lots). One of the benefits of working with an adoption agency is that they will do a lot of the legwork when it comes to looking for potential adoptive parents for your child, according to the requirements that you have shared with them. And in California you can only legally be matched with an adoptive family through a licensed adoption agency.
At Adopt International, we have waiting potential adoptive families, all of whom have gone through a rigorous screening process. By matching your adoption criteria against suitable families, the agency team can draw up a shortlist of likely candidate profiles for you to review. When you find a family who seems a potential fit for your child, you are able make contact with them if you wish.
If you found this article useful, you might also find this useful: Pregnant adoption
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If you are pregnant and wondering whether adoption could be the right option for you and your baby, you can contact us any time on (800)-969-6665 or by filling out this form.
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Adopt International is a non-profit organization. We provide extensive support and assistance to expectant mothers who are considering adoption for their child. Learn more here.
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If you are a family who is considering adopting a child, learn more here.
If you are pregnant and considering placing your baby for adoption, you deserve to have a respectful and positive experience.
We can help every step of the way.
You are in control, and can choose what your adoption plan will be.
About us
At Adopt International, we believe it is important that you make this decision on your own terms and surround yourself with helpful, supportive professionals.
We have over 40 years of experience working with pregnant women, which has taught us that in order to have a successful adoption it is imperative that a birth mother is comfortable and confident in the choice she makes.
We are advocates for open adoption. Research shows it is the best kind of adoption plan for birth families, adoptive families, and adoptees.
Words from birth mothers

“I want to thank Adopt International for all they have done for me and my daughter and her family.
They truly know the meaning of open adoption and making it work for us all.”
- Monica
“From the second I walked in the door I felt like I was in a very warm and supportive environment.”
- Bethany


“You didn’t pressure me into anything.
You held my hand all the way through the process and made sure I knew everything about placing my child for adoption.
I am forever grateful for your agency.”
- Birth mother
“Well, I chose Adopt International because the awesome family I chose to be my birth daughter’s adoptive parents were already working with y’all, and when I met with y’all myself, you were so pro birth parent, understanding, and down to Earth in a situation that was straight up madness.
I have love, love, loved being in contact with y’all over time and seeing that you really do care, just like you showed me over a decade ago!”
- Myra

¿Considerando dar en adopción?
Si estás embarazada y consideras dar en adopción a tu bebé, mereces tener una experiencia respetuosa y positiva. Te empoderaremos para que puedes tomar la mejor decisión para usted. Tenemos trabajadoras sociales que hablan español para ayudarte y responder a tus preguntas.
Nuestras consejeras de adopción pueden:
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Ayudarle a decidir si adopción es la mejor opción para ti
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Apoyar en su decisión de criar a tu niño o por familia adoptiva.
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Ayudar a aprender sobre la adopción abierta.
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Ayudarle a elegir una familia adoptiva
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Informarle sobre sus derechos y a poner en contacto con los servicios que se requieran.
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Asistirle para conseguir ayuda en los gastos de adopción.
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Apoyarle antes y después del nacimiento de su bebé.
Usted tiene el control, y puede elegir el mejor plan de adopción que mejor le convenga











