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Looking for parents to adopt my baby

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Many families are awaiting the opportunity to adopt a baby, but as an expectant mother, you might be unsure how to start this process, or even whether adoption is the right option for you and your baby in the first place.

 

There are lots of resources to help you inform yourself about the process of adoption. 

If you do decide that adoption is a course of action that you wish to consider further, these are some of the best ways to begin your search for an adoptive family for your child.

  1. Looking for parents to adopt my baby

  2. Finding adoptive parents for your baby - next steps

1) Looking for parents to adopt my baby

If you are an expectant mother who has decided to consider placing your baby for adoption, it is a good idea to write down your priorities for your child's adoptive family. This will not just include the living circumstances of the potential adoptive parents, but also their values and priorities in life. Using this list of ideal characteristics, you can find parents to adopt your baby.

Many states require that an expectant mom is matched through a licensed agency so we can ensure that the families that are presented to you have had a complete background check and are ready to adopt. A reputable adoption agency will draw up a shortlist of potential adoptive parents based on your preferences, and help you to connect with any you feel may be suitable. We find that the best matches happen when the two sets of families have things is common and get along well. Adoption agencies often also offer additional services such as counseling and assistance in obtaining adoption expenses.  

 

Things to consider as you chat with the agency social worker and start to review profiles:

Ethnicity:


Do you want a family that matches your child’s ethnicity or your native language?

Hobbies and activities:

If you come from a long line of musicians or soccer players sometimes it is nice to choose a family with similar hobbies and activities so that you have something in common. And if your child inherits these traits from you the adoptive family will easily be able to foster these talents. 

Values:

When you share similar values with the adoptive family we see that children are often raised to value the things that you find important as well. 

Size of family and extended family:

Did you grow up with a ton of cousin and loved the chaos that came with family holidays? Did you grow up with a single mom and loved having that quiet one on one time? Do you want to consider same sex couples.

Religion:

Is religion important to you one way or the other? 

Openness:

Making sure you and the adoptive family are on the same page about the level of openness is important. Research shows it is key in making sure you feel good about your adoption. 

2) Finding adoptive parents for your baby – next steps

Once you've chosen a potential adoptive family for your baby, you often talk on the phone and meet face to face to confirm it is the right match for you and your baby. Once it is confirmed then the next step is to finalize the details of your adoption and hospital plan. This will include details such as how much contact you wish to have with the potential adoptive parents and how and when they will meet the baby when the time comes.

 

If the adoption is to be an open adoption, you will also agree on how and when contact with the child will occur once the adoption is finalized. Contact can include photographs, emails, text, video calls, and face-to-face contact. Some families casually text and call all the time and other have a more formalized plan of contact. There is no right or wrong way, each adoption plan is designed around what feels the best for you. 

 

If you found this article useful, you might also find this useful: Birth mom and some useful links to adoption in key US states: Alabama, Arizona, Arkansas, California, Florida, Georgia, Indiana, Idaho, Indiana, Kentucky, Louisiana, Missouri, Montana, Nebraska, North Carolina, North Dakota, Ohio, Oklahoma, Pennsylvania, South Carolina, South Dakota, Tennessee, Texas, Utah, West Virginia, Wyoming.

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If you are pregnant and considering placing your baby for adoption, you deserve to have a respectful and positive experience.

 

We can help every step of the way.

Our adoption counselors can:

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Help decide if adoption is right for you

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Advise you of your rights, and connect you to resources

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Help you choose an adoptive family

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Assist you with obtaining adoption expenses

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Help you learn more about open adoption

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Support you before and after the birth of your baby

You are in control, and can choose what your adoption plan will be.

About us

At Adopt International, we believe it is important that you make this decision on your own terms and surround yourself with helpful, supportive professionals.

We have over 40 years of experience working with pregnant women, which has taught us that in order to have a successful adoption it is imperative that a birth mother is comfortable and confident in the choice she makes.

We are advocates for open adoption. Research shows it is the best kind of adoption plan for birth families, adoptive families, and adoptees.

Words from birth mothers

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“I want to thank Adopt International for all they have done for me and my daughter and her family.

 

They truly know the meaning of open adoption and making it work for us all.”

- Monica

“From the second I walked in the door I felt like I was in a very warm and supportive environment.”

- Bethany

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“You didn’t pressure me into anything.

You held my hand all the way through the process and made sure I knew everything about placing my child for adoption.

I am forever grateful for your agency.”

- Birth mother

“Well, I chose Adopt International because the awesome family I chose to be my birth daughter’s adoptive parents were already working with y’all, and when I met with y’all myself, you were so pro birth parent, understanding, and down to Earth in a situation that was straight up madness.

I have love, love, loved being in contact with y’all over time and seeing that you really do care, just like you showed me over a decade ago!”

- Myra

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¿Considerando dar en adopción? 

Si estás embarazada y consideras dar en adopción a tu bebé, mereces tener una experiencia respetuosa y positiva. Te empoderaremos para que puedes tomar la mejor decisión para usted. Tenemos trabajadoras sociales que hablan español para ayudarte y responder a tus preguntas.

 

Nuestras consejeras de adopción pueden:

  • Ayudarle a decidir si adopción es la mejor opción para ti

  • Apoyar en su decisión de criar a tu niño o por familia adoptiva.  

  • Ayudar a aprender sobre la adopción abierta. 

  • Ayudarle a elegir una familia adoptiva

  • Informarle sobre sus derechos y a poner en contacto con los servicios que se requieran. 

  • Asistirle para conseguir ayuda en los gastos de adopción. 

  • Apoyarle antes y después del nacimiento de su bebé. 

 

Usted tiene el control, y puede elegir el mejor plan de adopción que mejor le convenga

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